wanted loyal respectful proffesional gent

strong ,sassy bubbly,say it the way it is blond divorced , woman some like that some hate that,, some guys want you too be weak then you will say yes too everything  im the opposite,ive learnt being soft and nicey nicey gets you no where, just gets you liers and cheats,,,,,tons of hobbies I upcycle vintage furniture,     looking for a delightful ,classy , no smoker  aged 40 to48 ,,younger than me , must have a car ,be a very charming gent,,,someone loyal who isn't a user, and knows how too treat woman ,,you would think that would be easy its not